<>My strife to become fair and beautiful as wanted in the matrimonials started right at my mother's womb...Obviously i dint do the struggling(lucky me)....milk with saffron ,cherries,plums and everything my great grand-mom thought would make me "lovely" was pushed through my moms gut..cause everyone would be rather upset if i turned out dusky like my dad..its not like my parents cared.....they loved me from the moment i was conceived and i would be more than just "skin and hair"....
I was born comparatively fairer than the rest in my family...maybe 'twas the milk after-all....but all my super lovely and far more beautiful sister heard was "you've got great features...wish you had a little more colour(white is not even a colour...."...
Is it like every mans fantasy to sleep with a blonde ???...or why else would it be so over-rated...this i dont know...Every-one is shallow....even the super rich who do not want to endorse fairness creams but are going paler and paler by the day,thanks to all the procedures they can afford....They are society hypocrites who not only want to take a stand but also cant do without it otherwise.....
This is a sort of racism..Why are we being judged by attributes that i'm born into??..I'm indian,I'm short...I am particularly proud of myself and need not be questioned....what i can otherwise be questioned are choices that i have made over the years..and these are things you can judge me by...why judge my assets when you can judge my personality..we're just one hollow judgemental society that finds negativity every-where....
Young men are no less at contributing to this kind of racism...they want a fair-saree wearing-hotshot-model material as their wife since the time they realize that that its testosterone that runs in their blood....even porn sites are filled with white-naked-women....whats with all the over-obsessed nature that drives them to become so shallow that they want a white-skinned-whore to a real true "COMPANION".......
I sometimes even blame DISNEY for this unwarranted desire...every princess....every fairy...every-one of them is "SNOW-WHITE"...LITERALLY!!!...and they find a loving man of their dreams who fights against all odds to have her((BULL SHIT))...What with fairytales like sleeping beauty talking about “who is the fairest of them all” and Snow White and Barbie dolls becoming role models for little girls...I'm yet to find girls owning duskier barbies'. Right from our childhood the message is clear, and in later years it is only reinforced in many ways.....Its all fed in the sub-conscience....just like how we know good and bad...we also know who is better.....
Have you ever heard of a man going under the knife to get his butt right..or his arms trimmed....its always a women getting a boob job OR her hymen fixed OR face-life OR Liposuctions....The number of procedures are infinite and they some-how only cater to women cause we're standardized to mere sex objects...And what makes us think we're never "GOOD ENOUGH"....growing up i always thought i had a BIG NOSE(i still think i do but a different one)....Try putting Angelina jolie's lips and Jennifer Anistons nose and Drew Barrymore's cheek together....They look almost Spastic!!!...We're in a way challenging GOD's artistic and creative skills.......
I have nothing against the "FAIRER SEX"....or against those who use fairness creams...cause i use one myself(great sun-screen)....it will only help you sustain a tone that you already have and wont make no miracles happen.....but i feel horribly pathetic for those who are ashamed of being dusky and try rub their skins white just for "FIT IN" and be more desirable.....Strangely, how educated or affluent you are has no bearing on this prejudice.....Look anywhere and everywhere, there are blatant and subtle reinforcements that only fair is lovely....
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